Come on Barbie let's go change the world!..or maybe not so much???"

Let me begin by stating that I walked into the movie theater fully aware that this film would profoundly affect me. For those of you who don't know, I hold high expectations for entertainment, and I always, without fail, delve deep into the messages and meanings behind many of the scenes.


Now, as a preliminary note, I believe I need to watch this movie at least two more times to fully grasp all of the messages and meanings. But for now, let me share my thoughts and ideas as clearly as possible.


The set was nothing short of incredible. The meticulous attention to detail, from the sand to the props and costume design, was truly outstanding. The script seamlessly blended humor and beauty, with monologues that left a lasting impact and scenes accompanied by the enchanting sounds of Billie Eilish's music, leaving not a dry eye in the house.


Is it good? No, it's not just good; it's fabulous. It's a powerful and meticulously crafted piece of art. The marketing campaign, endorsements, product placements—all of it is on another level. The film's attention to detail and the inclusion of Easter eggs are executed excellently. And the acting, well, it's A-class all around. This movie is cleverly crafted from start to finish.


Here are some aspects I absolutely loved, best summarized in bullet points:

• The reframing of humbleness and how we receive praise is a standout theme. For too long, women have brushed off compliments, downplaying their achievements. It's time to embrace the notion that "I deserve this; I worked hard for it."
  
• The exploration of beauty and Helen Mirren's narration was spot on. Even with subtle human features like emphasized eyes and natural skin texture, Margot Robbie still embodies what society deems 'beautiful.' The fact that I noticed these less-filtered scenes highlighted how accustomed I've become to airbrushed images.
  
• The portrayal of Ken as an unanchored man without his own identity was refreshing. It provides a glimpse into the darker side of modern masculinity. Barbie encouraging him to find his roots was a departure from the norm in movies, and it's a change I welcomed.
  
• The movie's commentary on the patriarchy was clever and thought-provoking. It's not about horses, sadly. The fact that Ken created a patriarchal structure that eventually led to men turning against each other and competing was all too accurate. The campfire scene with its humorous song lyrics was a highlight. While we often discuss how patriarchy affects women, it's time to also address its impact on men, albeit in different ways.
  
• The mother-daughter relationship depicted in the film was fascinating. It's intriguing to observe how older generations are reacting to this movie. Some are embracing change, while others resist it. The level of conversation sparked by this movie is unprecedented, and it can only be a positive sign.
  
• Barbie's realization that she wasn't changing the world, especially when confronted by the Bratz dolls, was a powerful moment. It serves as a reminder that no matter how well-intentioned our actions, we can't control how the world perceives them. However, it's essential to ensure we're not inadvertently promoting harmful ideologies.
  
• I appreciated the film's depiction of the physical and emotional exhaustion faced by women and the pressure to prioritize attractiveness over comfort. It's high time we address these unrealistic expectations. The role reversal with female leads and men playing 'not-so-bright' sidekicks was a clever touch, though it may not resonate with everyone.
  
  
  

Now, moving on to a somewhat controversial point. Please understand that my intention isn't to take away from the greatness of this movie, but rather to provide a balanced perspective. Mattel seems to be undergoing a rebranding process, and I understand the strategy behind it. It's clever to acknowledge weaknesses and share mistakes as a business, making the brand more relatable. This approach can humanize a brand in the eyes of consumers. However, it's crucial to recognize that some elements, such as the return of characters like Alan and Midge, may have been waiting in a warehouse since filming began. While I may sound critical, I want to present both sides of the story transparently. Are we demanding change or are we walking a path that was very cleverly marketed to make us feel as if this was our own decision?


When we examine Barbie's image, we must acknowledge that she still represents a slim, white, conventionally attractive figure. (I've never had to choose my words so carefully before, but bear with me.) She lacks the curves, thigh chafing, stretch marks, or even a hint of a belly that many women experience. Her friends, while more diverse, still seem to adhere to standardized ideals. It's as though someone checked boxes for inclusivity during casting. While this may be a step in the right direction, it's not quite enough. We need diversity in heights, sizes, skin tones, and even dolls in wheelchairs or with prosthetics. Maybe I'm becoming a bit more critical with age, or perhaps change of this magnitude doesn't require a gradual approach. Who can say for sure? I certainly can't.
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So, as the world applauds this movie's contributions and celebrates female directors and shifts in beauty standards, I find myself wanting more. I know change is on the horizon, and it will be worth the wait.


I envision a world where we don't need permission to be who we want to be. A world where a movie isn't necessary to make us contemplate how men, through a structure they created, are destroying each other. A world where women of every race, size, color, and height are celebrated. A world where the structures that make us feel 'not good enough' no longer exist, instead of corporations banding together for movie marketing rebrands that persuade us to buy more products to feel seen, heard, honored, and connected.


While this marketing strategy is impressive, and I genuinely appreciate the conversations it's generating, this Barbie desires change on a deeper level. I also acknowledge that this Barbie needs to cultivate patience.


It's a promising start, and for the sake of my children, I'm pleased to witness it. I would love to hear your thoughts on the film.


Oceans of Love, Cx